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Steve L's avatar

Thank you JD for another great story about nothing, yet always something to someone.

One of the most successful TV shows in history was Seinfeld, such an interesting show about nothing, but showed so much about the true human nature we see every day. Nothing to someone is everything to someone else.

If we were neighbor's, we would be best friends. I always enjoy what you have to say, and appreciate the same values we share. We may not always agree, but I've been married for almost 36 years, and I know for a fact that i'm always wrong. Just ask my wife:) So nothing wrong with being wrong...

The beautiful gift of writing is what your grand/great grandchildren willl have to know you by. Nobody can tell them anything you haven't told them yourself long after you have gone to our better place:)

Sarah Thompson's avatar

I’ve had a similar evolution. I feel like I was bolder when I was young, and then I shoved it away. Growing up as the only libertarian among my peers in a little blue city, at university, and almost everywhere, I was regularly abused for my views, and certainly never rewarded for them, so I came to believe that they were an obstacle to the material and social success I so desperately desired.

But I also couldn’t abandon them, because every time I tried, I found that they only got truer. During covid I realized all the people I most admired had chosen early in life not to compromise, and I wanted to be like that, too.

Once I made that decision, everything changed. Maybe I lost a few friends or clients, but who was I forcing myself to be in order to retain them?

And yet, publishing is always scary, because those thoughts enter the world in print, and, even as I change, the print does not. Publishing is a promise to the world to stand naked on the stage and bear the torrent of tomatoes, to never be allowed to forget a failure or a foible.

Nothing makes us quite so real to ourselves.

And so we write.

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